Complaint 356486 Details

  • Date Occurred: 12/28/2015
  • Reported Damages: $2,000.00
  • Location: servers located in malaysia but mostly dating site with chinese gir
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The complaint is against an online dating profile

The complaint is a listing fraud posted on public forums or sites against an anonymous entity

The complaint is mobile text spam or smishing related against an anonymous entity

The company or person contact no longer exists

International boundaries

from december 2015 to january 2017


I am here to speak about my own story about asiandate,
and I know it for a fact...listen to my story and you will be also convinced, even tho they now give the possibility to put likes on facebook and other
sites...In december 2015 I had since about two months subscribed on that site, but because of the high prices I never gave it a shot until I found this really cute girl living in
Suzhou who was sending me tons of letters and finally told myself I have to answer to this girl! So I started talking with her spending tons of money there...she then told me she was
going to come see me in my country so I cleaned up all my home and made things ready to receive her. In one of her letters she said she obtained her visa and would book her flight ticket within three days
I was also receiving a lot of pictures from her but on some of them it seemed like it was not her on...when I spoke to her about it she answered that I was wrong and it was really her on.
I started to get suspicious and as she understood that she never sent me a letter again
I was very upset because I felt very much in love with that girl so I decided to buy myself a plane ticket and go myself to china to try to find her in her city, at least if all this was just a lie or a scam,
maybe I would know what was happening and if I could find her
I would of asked her explanations for cutting off contact with me after we exchanged for a long time and after she told me she was also crazy in love about me.
I knew she owned a clothes shop there in Suzhou even tho the challenge was huge I decided to do it!
I also got in contact with two other girls one in shanghai and one in Hengyang to make sure if could not find her I would not go to China for nothing and maybe I could at least find what I was looking for!(love)
So i bought a plane ticket to shanghai wich is right next to suzhou and once arrived there I started to look for the girl I also met on that site and who was living there in a district called pudong.
This one owned a flower shop but asiandate doesn't let any kind of personal informations go through
unless you make a phone call or send gift such as flowers or write your postal address in one letter (as they say) I tryied the postal adress option with one girl and she said she had sent me a letter after receiving my adress
I think she tryied twice but I never got any letter!!!
I have done every single flower shop in pudong's area without finding the girl so I took the train to suzhou to try to find the first and most important one I had in my head and have done all the clothes shops in her city to try to find her....
Now I guess you already know what I'm going to say: I never found her!!! I could get in touch with her from china because I had a VPN (don't you think it's weird the site is unreachable from china itself if you don't have a VPN???)
and there she tells me: Well I am not there at the moment I am in Hubei on a business trip!!!
I realised there I was being scammed but told myself well maybe it's not the case for every single women on the site so let's go to Hengyang and see what all this is really about!
Arrived there everything goes well I can speak to the girl on the site and arrange a meeting place where she shows up but surprise!!! It's not the girl on the pictures!!!
She recommand me to take a translator (at that time I could not speak chinese but the problem is solved now) I paid 500 yuan for it and went with her at the restaurant
She choosed an expensive restaurant and went with the translator who was one of her classmates and another friend. Obviously I had to pay the restaurant for all the three!!!
I decided to go over it to try to see what she says about the site and how she got there but each time I asked questions like this I got a kind of "turn around the table" answer that came from the translator
(I have to tell you while talking on the site the girl was very nice and seemed to be interested in me but once together I spent most of the time talking with the translator while she was barely looking at me
spending most of the time filling up her stomac with the food I bought!!!)
After that we exchanged QQ numbers (it's a chat app) but she barely answered me after the meeting until I just dropped her out because she was not even being nice to me!!!
After this experience I went back to my country and got in contact with the online chat help of the site where I explain to them my story and all what happened.
They said they made a control on the girl of hengyang to see if what I said was true (I have sent them the pictures from the site and the ones I took of her with my cell phone to show them the difference and that I wasn't lying!)
A few days later I got the money back I have spent onto the girl from hengyang because they couldn't do any other way, I had the proofs with the pictures but only in the form of credit to spend again on their awful site!!!
I told myself this place is just a scam but what if all the girls are not false and maybe there are some real ones, I decided to give one last shot on this girl that lives in Xuzhou and where I am now, writing you this letter!
This one was really nice and very kind we exchanged for months but I got tired of spending money there and I don't have too much!!!
I kept on telling her I was going to come see her but there was much more time between my letters and chat... here we are in january 2017 I just tryied to contact this girl from Xuzhou and guess what???
She told me it's a long time you didn't contact me, you should of told me long ago
you where going to come, I am not there at the moment (huh huh again? another one who says she's not there when she supposed to be working in her own city?)
I guess this story is the perfect proof of the fact that is just a pure scam, there is no real girl on this site!!!!!
I guess what happens is chinese girls sell pictures to some agency to make money and they use the pictures to make the site then some guys or girls from usa or anywhere else speak to you (also to make money) or maybe some are in china
otherwise I would not have met the one in hengyang but there is obviously something wrong behind all this!!!
Don't tell me that after three trials I could only see one who had false pictures!!!
One last thing the very first girl was living in suzhou but her agency was in guangdong wich is also the place they wanted to make me go to if I was going to meet her through the site and I could figure out the exact place where she made some of her pictures wich Chongqing!!!!!
So if you want to go out and marry a chinese girl go wherever you want but not on that awful site!!!!!!!!!And all the comments saying that they have met real girls are comments made by people from the site to try to make people wonder about the comments saying it's a SCAM!!!
Whoever wants to contact me I kept all the proofs and pictures of what I said and I will with the greatest pleasure show him everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Here is my mail address: (don't forget the second (_) before @)
When i think about it i want to add to this: i have also been searching for some other girl's we chat or QQ or facebook or skype that some girls were supposedly trying to send to me trough pictures or letters and i was always getting foggy letters written on the pictures, anyways i have done searches looking at every name of every girl on everyone of those sites and i never could find non of them, and i can tell i have been searching for over ten girls on all these sites because they where saying themselves they were having accounts on them...and i never could find nobody!!!!!i guess this is another good proof that this site is a total SCAM

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